We must understand that we are all human, or individual lives within one world. Individuality is natural evidence of difference in existence; we all have different likes, dislikes, motivations, and other elements that fall in between. In our singularity, however, we must acknowledge that we live in ONE world full of individuals whose very existence affects our own. Therefore, as individuals, we must face differences with committed curiosity for a healthy life experience. In this curiosity, we must summon our understanding, remembering that understanding is the incorporation of differences in the building of a fair foundation.
In a world of "SOMEONE ELSE's" we can easily lose ourselves in the image of the influential. (This image is called the FACADE OF REALITY). When the duplicate fulfillment of an individual's image occurs, we leave our own vessels emptied to be driven by a "SOMEONE ELSE". We drain ourselves of what we have accumulated through discussions with the individuals in our world. We uproot ourselves from the soil that gave us life and replace our natural sun with a temporary spotlight that cannot sustain us.
Our vessels, however, can be re-attained and our crops can be replenished by the exhibition of curiosity of other individuals and ourselves. We must also remember that curiosity is not only the demand to understand, but also the invitation to be understood. Questions are the answers to ourselves. Answers are the questions to others. The questions that go unanswered are the answers that go unquestioned. Hearing the unquestioned to better understand the process of asking is key.This can be applied to relationship differences with a significant other, family member, friend, or stranger.
In RelationshipsWhen individuality meets reality, rationale amidst moral dictation ceases. Especially
when we realize that untested rationale does not exist. For, the untested lacks the roots and the foundation needed to grow.
Frustration builds on the residue of yesterday’s conflict.
Residue dissolves to give place to glop (for a better word).
CLEAN WHAT YOU GOT...FROM THE INSIDE OUT.